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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

How do you describe a person who does not know how to treat a very kind person?

How do you call someone who does not treat a very kind person nicely?


A very interesting topic I found in a forum on Web Answers. This was my comment:

Verbal abuse is the most common type of abusive actions. It is also the most detrimental due to the frequency of occurrence. It is very important to watch for signs of this early on and then decide if the relationship can improve. It rarely improves without professional help.

In the case of this woman, she should find some books to help her at Amazon.com "The Secret of Overcoming Verbal Abuse: Getting Off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Regaining Control of Your Life". is a great one. Get in a support group, and make a new life with only positive people. Help those that are also struggling.

The reason a person can commit verbal abuse is a number of reasons. No coping skills, lack of respect, inability to communicate, no self-esteem, conditioning through upbringing, and complete disregard. In the end we allow people to treat us how we want or we can walk away.....those are the only true choices.

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Thursday, June 23, 2011

How can I ask my girlfriend to kiss me?

What is the best way to ask a girl to kiss me?

It was interesting to think about this topic I found in one of the Web Answers forums. I replied with this comment:

I think part of maturing is understanding timing in relationships, interactions, and life overall. I always thought asking was tacky, personally.

The better approach is to attempt some more gentle moves like hugging, hand holding, light touching of the arm or hand. This will show her you are interested and she will then interact, hopefully the same. That is what I mean by timing. Its a gradual pace. Most woman love the romance of the perfect moment. If you do this correctly you may end up with a second date.

Good Luck!

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Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Would you Rather be Rich or Healthy?

Would you Rather be Rich or Happy?


In a discussion on Web Answers  I found this topic.  It was interesting to think about.  Here was my reply:


I have read the answers and thought about alternate views on your question. My first thought is healthy but after further thinking what if I am 100 years old. I will not be healthy for that much longer. In that train of thought I could buy myself more time with unlimited funds. Expensive surgeries or transplants could prolong my life beyond just my normal health at 100. Quality of life would be the only real question.

That is just another view point :)

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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

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Saturday, June 4, 2011

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